Blowing up only works for balloons!

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Daisy and Mishka!

I put the rubber band on my wrist a couple of months back...maybe I shouldn't have taken it off.

I think I am much better than I was. I really need to keep goals in mind and that way I have something to think about if I get upset.

I agree, with your realization - keep you eyes on the prize!! As someone else mentioned - you should feel lucky that your xh actually tells you when something bothers him. Many of us here don't have that.