Sorry I have not been on this weekend...Its been busy with both daughters in soccer and yesterday was D14th birthday.
Where do I start....
Did spend the majority of Saturday with hubby and kids as a family... I was upset at lunch when he told me he had a last minute softball practice..so our "talk" would be pushed off until Sunday morning.
Hubby could see I was obviously upset.. when we left the restaurant he rubbed my back and said "san.. we will talk, it will be ok"
As much as I wanted to be reassured..I didn't let myself get my hopes up.
He took D10 with him so he got to spend 4 hours with her..took her out to dinner. She enjoyed that.
He came over Sunday morning..We (D10 and I) made him a nice breakfast that was ready when he walked in the door.
We had our talk... he says he is ready to end his relationship with OW.. he has a friend that lives down the street that he was planning on asking tonight if he could stay there while we ease back into a relationship...
Both of us agree that moving from one to another and back again is not good. We both think it will be good for him to have time to think..and I want to make sure he is done with OW.
He said he loves me and not her... only time will tell how sincere he is.. As much as I want to believe him..I have to be cautious with my heart...
So..right now he is watching football up the street... how the next step transitions to him telling her and getting his stuff I am not sure.. I need to give him space to figure out this mess..
I will keep you posted..and welcome any advice for how best to handle all this.
