"It's also just hard in general to go back and write it all again.
It seems like a million years ago.
Then again, sometimes not so much."
I find this frustrating.. to just go back and "wing" it.
I know in starting to write it out.. I will leave something out.
Also.. I have a "stubby" pencil.
And.. if I can...
"Does it hurt to look back and reflect on some of the things you did/said, etc.?"
No. It just becomes hard to explain it. It is hard to explain.. cause that thought is not "with" me any more.
"I know you have moved forward but this is such a major life-changing event that can take years."
Life comes in baby steps.. so it gets hard to analyze. If you are there in the moment.. you can describe it. The answer comes.. when you look back on it.
Trust the answer.. not the moment.
Even if someone sees it different.. strive to understand why they see it different.
Sorry AmyC...
This one just "Hit" me.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.