...Anyway...my W hates my guts. I am a total liar in her words. I tried to talk to her tonite about the house and foreclosure, having her come up with a homework plan, etc. It was redirected at me. She made faces...rolled her eyes..redirected that I am driving this. When it got back to why, she threatened me with harassment, got up and threatened to leave the house....
FIB
I think if the opportunity presents itself and you think you can accomplish it emotionally...a calm, matter-of-fact reminder of just how the cow ate the cabbage is due.
You can't skirt around the edge of the tunnel with her or you'll end up getting dragged in, FIB.
I just don't know how she manages to stay locked in this stage for so long...
She's either very, very naive or very, very scared.
Denial, deflecting and eye-rolling show her immaturity and her unwillingness to accept responsibility for her actions.
Her sense of entitlement is also bewildering.
Hang in there, FIB.
One of you has to be grounded and it looks like it still has to be you.
