My understanding is that moving on is what is needed before S realizes what they lost. Then they MAY come back. This is a time of growth for you. H needs to walk his own path in his own time.
Sorry again for your pain, but it will make you stronger.
If you don''t mind me asking, what is the status of the cancer?
*hugs and prayers*
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
