Donna, sweetie. I understand how you are feeling, but you must pull yourself up.

HE DOES NOT DEFINE WHO YOU ARE.

This is so important for you right now. He does things that you allow to hurt you. You have to stop letting him. You are giving him such incredible power in your life.

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Why did he pick her and not me?


Because he is not good enough for you right now.

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What the hell is wrong with me?


Your normal and actually able to feel. In your situation, that will at times suck.


Donna, he is not right, it is not about obsession, it is about commitment. He just doesnt understand that. Hang in there Donna......


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09