I think it's very common for the WAS to put an a charade for others. Mine was good at it for a while lol. I realized that he really hadn't moved on like he said he had and that his evening aren't filled with parties and social events.

I think that even if he misses you "at times" it's better than NOT missing you. I bet he even misses you a lot more than you think. I was shocked when my xh told me a while ago that he was lonely...WTF I thought he had a great life.

Rant away..we are all here to talk you down just like you all did for me a while back ;\)


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road