Well I just got my answer about being done. D11 did call and said that they were on their way home from OM's moms. She was complaining about some of the teachers and about getting her homework done. She told her mom that they had been to busy this weekend to get her homework done. While talking to her I could hear OM in the background.
Now there will be a big distance between us. One that I put there. WTF was that BS? As sad as it is it is time to move on and find someone that cares. She can crash and burn on her own.
As hard as it may be it is time for me to find the money and file for D on her. I am sure sooner or later she will realize what she has lost and regret it. I don't even want to use the term "wife" when it comes to her. So much for better or worse, time to bail on this fight. It seems to be a losing battle anyway.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
