Yay! Thats great that he asked you and phoned too! I didnt realise that you couldnt make it (can you really not??) but at least you get to see him on his birthday! Are you going to give him a birthday horizontal jig!? Knowing you, I am guessing you will keep him waiting still.

Funny that you caught yourself slipping into old patterns then stopped yourself. I guess he needs to feel like the man and to be able to make decisions which you respect and of course, it is his birthday, so should be his choice of venue. I'm so happy for you, I was getting a little worried when you were tearful and he hadnt contacted you. You are bound to get wobbly though, you and this new R with him are like a new born foal, not quite standing on all 4 legs yet!

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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