I know he's a tool, and yet, my mind and heart just cannot seem to come together on this one.
My mind is playing through news reels of his most recent antics, splicing them in with of his past deceits--trying to prove to me he is a coward and a liar and yet my heart still clings to the idea of him as the man I loved so much.
Hi Sweetie,
I think the above is not only normal, but in way, a good thing. It seems that Mitch was, at one point, a different man. I don't think you could be completely wrong about that, not for so many years. Now that he's changed - so drastically and (relatively) quickly - it will take a while for your heart to accept that.
The way he is acting now is v. similar to the way my XH is: he is only thinking of himself. I think Ellie's right, and he's realizing how expensive D really is, how is lifestyle is now being affected. Well, too bad for him.
I know that you will get legal advice, and I know that you will get through this, but I just wanted to let you know that you are NOT an idiot or crazy or lazy or any other nasty thing - you are a true gem.
Love,Nicola
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