Looking for some help on a gift question from a WAS.

If the WAW said one of her complaints was not getting gifts does giving one now for her birthday show that I care or just anger her. If I don't give a gift is that just respecting the NC or showing I don't care.

- H (me, LBS) = 33 y/o
- WAW = 36 y/o
- M = 7 yrs, T = 11 yrs
- S9, D6
- Bomb dropped = 8/9/08
- WAW moved out = 9/19/08.
- Hope = faint.
My Sitch