Why do people believe that just because someone is separated that they're the same as divorced? It isn't the same. Like okay, now that I'm separated, I'm gonna go messing around. Crossing lines. ESPECIALLY when they know she went stepping out on me. Like they want me to move on, exact revenge and find someone else better, and that's not what its about.
Why does it come as such a shock that there are so many people out there that DO NOT respect marriage vows? Marriages are disposable these days. Nobody wants Mr./Mrs. Right, they want Mr./Mrs. Rightnow. Whoever makes them feel good right then. Relationships & "Love" is a drug and its a "socially acceptable" addiction. People look down on drug addicts, but they try and understand and help the other kind of junkies. I'm kind of on a rant today, but people have no respect for the sanctity of marriage, its very sad. I'm sure that both B and K are very nice women, but they would move in on you in a heartbeat(as you now know) and not give your W a second thought. That right there should be a huge red flag about who they are and where they are in their lives and their walk.
Just be careful.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
