For the Guy with Kids and a WW 12

[hopeful4her]

Everything is out in the open now. So now I realize it. Why does both sides of my life involve drama. Last thing I want. I just wanted to be out having a good time. I don't believe I was leading anyone on. Believe me, I do NOT consider myself the catch.

Why do people believe that just because someone is separated that they're the same as divorced? It isn't the same. Like okay, now that I'm separated, I'm gonna go messing around. Crossing lines. ESPECIALLY when they know she went stepping out on me.

Like they want me to move on, exact revenge and find someone else better, and that's not what its about.

Now I know that I have to deal with a delicate sitch. Keep 'em at an arms length.

D11 left me a message last night. I missed her call.
"I guess your out at another concert."

She says she wants to skip church in the morning, because she has been going to bed late, and she is going to be tired.

The wife calls me this morning too. Says the girls are still asleep. I tell her that D11 left me a message, so I already knew. I ask about D6 and about her phone. Still not working, so I should call the apartment phone or D11's phone if I need to call.

She tells me to pay no attention to the name that comes up on the caller id. She doesn't know whose name it is. I tell her I saw nothing. She says her mother told her Javier something's name pops up on caller id. I say okay. I'll call after church.

After church, D11 says that they are going to Chuckee Cheese and then to Barnes and Noble. I tell them to call me later when ready. D11 calls me a little bit ago. Do I want mom to bring them or something. I say its up to mom. I can go pick up if she needs me to.

Gonna BBQ some chicken for tonight. Try my hand at potato salad. If the wife brings them, I might say she's invited if she wants but no expectations.

I know I probably shouldn't invite, but I'll be nice.


BTW, I think Dub has left me too but I guess I understand.