Hi, I have never posted to you before but what is happening to you is exactly what happened to me!
OUT OF THE BLUE...during our D5's baseball game, H said he missed me and wanted to come home. His OW was not what he thought and he realized that he was spending more time with her kids than his own.
H also realized that he no longer knew what was going on in my life. I did not tell him anything and acted very mysteriously when he would come and get the kids. I GAL'd the best I could...I was home with a D5 and a D9 months!
I don't think OW's and A's are the way to go OBVIOUSLY...but sometimes it helps us learn what is important in a M...
Anyway...I listened and we dated. It has been a year and three months since H moved back home and our M is stronger than ever. We still go to MC but overall we have built our R to be stronger than ever.
I am sending you good thoughts and luck! I am sure things will turn out the way you want them to be!
