Oh Jeez! Now she is shacking up with the manager of her apartment. I wonder if she gets a better rent rate now. No wonder she hung up on you - she is guilty and has no response to your concern.

I hope your L can use this latest to get the custody issue ironed out quickly.

Sorry to say this, but your D5 is probably going to see her mother go through more men in the future. Most of those men wont have the patience and commitment you have and will dump her mighty quick when they find out her anger issues.