I know this is not a big thing. But to me it is. I was folding laundry in the living room, and H is lying on the bed watching football. I carried in the sheets and a fresh blanket and said, "Do you think you could change the sheets?" And then a miracle happened. He calmly nodded and said "Sure". It's not much. Maybe 3 minutes of work. But he will do it. Not me. And it only took me 28 years to ask.