Maybe today was the day I begin to move forward and away from W for good.
D called me and when I asked her what she'd been doing this weekend, she said "we had a sleep-over w/ James." I asked who James was as I was praying he was one of her friends from school and she said he was the man who worked in the front office of the apartment complex.
I asked D where James slept and she said "w/ Mommy." Ok, now I'm very angry. W did get on the phone w/ me and said she heard D tell me James had slept in her bed w/ her.
I told W that I don't care who she sleeps w/ but I do care that she does it in front of D. I reminded her that we were told explicitly NOT to do this in our parenting class. All W said was it was "none of my business."
I told her it was only my business if it is involving my D. She didn't like that and hung up.
This is after saying it wasn't appropriate for me to be w/ D this weekend, but it is appropriate for her to sleep w/ another man while she has D w/ her?
I've fired off the story to my L who will wish I had the conversation recorded, as do I. However, we can put her feet to the fire if needed. I'm concerned for the messages this is sending to my D. Why can't W see this doesn't hurt me at all but hurts D tremendously?
I may have broken through w/ this and may be beginning to look forward to the D ending things rather than wanting to make things work. I just want to get custody of my D and soon.
