Hey Dawn,

Wow, I dont know how you do it.. to have your H at home and yet things to be so strained between you two, you are amazing! So well done on making him laugh! I have found that hard too over the past 9 months, its hard to be your natural old witty self in front of someone who is so clearly not wanting to engage with you. I agree with Lisa, can you look at what you did right in the chat today that led to it being a pretty good 15 minute convo? Was it becuase its a subject that he gets fired up about?

Thanks for your help on my thread too, we are all flailing in the dark...

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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