I'm glad to hear you went to those meetups! Seems out of character for you and I'm excited to see you trying something new.
I've never liked the whole "standing" concept, other than the time when I was desparate and grasping at anything. Sounds like you're getting to where I ended up, with that.
I don't think you "blew" anything exactly, I just think you're wayyyy too available and not allowing him to "pursue" you at all. I truly think playing hard to get would be at least worth TRYING in your sitch. You can't really pursue someone who's already chasing you.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
