i had a whole diatribe planned to write and then I just read all of these wonderful posts that said the same things I was going to say only nicer (so not the SAME things but you get my drift)

and

i was still full of piss and vinegar and was going to rant anyway

and

then I read lovely Lissie's post and realized that sometimes I need to not be such a pitbull and maybe the softer approach is good sometimes

and

he sucks assets

and

you are lovely and devine
and
everything he does that is small and petty and arrogant and pompous just show the divide between you two is larger and larger

and

i wonder how he deals with the fact that he had springtime in his life with you and now he has nothing ot if that realization is too much for him to ever have because his brain will implode inside his head