Looking for some more patience!

[kissak]

I really wish someone would help me figure my H out. Its so confusing. One would think that if you have been kicked to the curb by the same woman dozens of times because of his assumed unfaithfulness, that this person wouldnt risk it again.

But I guess what they say is true. If you forgive someone over and over again for something, I believe you are just giving them permission to keep doing it again and again.

My H is giving up his place to move in with the OW. They have only been back together a few days. If she dumps him again, he will be on the streets.

Well, I went to pick up the kids this morning from him so we could go to church. I think if the kids would have gone out the door sooner, he would have had a quickie with me. I cant believe this. Has the man not learned anything?? I just dont get it....if you love someone so much like he says, why on earth would you keep taking chances to lose that person. I mean, it doesnt matter to me, it actually makes me feel great that this OW has no idea what she is getting herself into. Well, actually she does, She has been told more than once what kinda person he is, but I think she chooses to overlook it, or more like In denial of it because she has never had much proof other than people talking.

Well, she will get whats coming to her is all I can say. I just cant figure out what is making my H take a chance like this.

Anyone have a clue?