John - I am sorry that you are out of piecing. I am guessing that there is still some hope, but that it is up to your W to convince you of it. For now, you just deal with whatever legal matters that you feel are necessary.
If your M does not work out, you have come out of this better as a person. You just need to get a clear picture of your life ahead of you. I am sure there are many good ladies that would be drawn to you like a magnet.
The statistics are bad in reconciliation success, but at least we all can still cheer on BobbiJo.
