I am very well. My marriage is OK. The divorce is long ago busted. But the marriage is still in recovery. Happily, in recovery. Some of the things I've written have come back to haunt me. Other things have been my rock to which I cling. I don't come around here much. I wish I had the strength to come around more often. I admire folks like JJ who have recovered and now contribute. I miss dear old friends who are now "banned". I won't mention them lest I risk the same fate.
I am once again thinking of returning and giving back to the board, but I may not be ready. Recovery is a hard road. We who are here all know the work to even be here, but few of us know the work to actually recover the marriage. I'm still trying to do that. I have convinced W to stick with the marriage for now, but I now even wonder if it's worth it. I believe we will both make it, but it is still tenuous. This, I believe, is good, because whatever ultimately happens will be the result of very careful consideration, and will be the best for all. We are and will always be friends. This is good.
