Thank you PhoenixNTraining for you reply and suggestion. I will check it out and see if my wife would be interested in listening to the tape because she did that before o another subject. This is very helpful.
Thank you KAW for your response. Yeah, when it comes to the subject of working on the R, even snail is moving faster than my wife’s. To her, she is happy with the way it is and why she HAS to do anything about it, especially when it comes to sex, she said she has no desire to have it any more and why she HAS to do anything about it. That’s her logic.
Thank you very much Zebra for NOT giving up on me. I’m so sorry that it took me too long to respond. I just don’t know what to say any more. I’m so TIRED of “it”. Hopelessness has just sunk in and made me feel like there was not much I could do any more. We’ve just ended up in the circle and I have been trying to find the way to get out of it without being in divorce. I only hope that one day out of the blue thing would sink in or struck somehow and that would wake her up to reality.
Zebra, like you said counseling would help us if we manage to get there, but so far there was none as couple. I have been there on my own for a while back, but have not been back for a long time. May be I should resume that to see what happens.
Zebra, I wish I could have a magic wand to solve all of these problems that we both and many others have encountered and experienced, but we are the ones (the chosen ones) who have to solve them on our own. But the question is how. We’ve read almost all the books that we had our hands on, we’ve posted here for quite sometimes, and we’ve helped each other for the good time and for the bad time, BUT, here we are…
Here we are…
Maybe and just maybe we really NEED to step out side temporally and look in as an outsider to see what went wrong.
