Happiness isn't something you experience;

[KarenMarieS]

Oh thats awful All, no once we get a pet its ours for the duration, sometimes to its chagrin lol Growing up we had our dogs 13-16 yrs how ever long they lived my cat i had when i was single living alone i brought home and left when i got married, she lived to 21. So yup, they are for life.

[Trip]

My pets have been with me for life, too.

[KarenMarieS]

Well found out some interesting news today, S called to tell me he was going to his dads' place tomorrow, thought it was odd, he dosnt go there and why?
He said he was going to help his dad move- I figured he and OW ( or whoever she is) were moving to a bigger place---

S then said- Dads moving alone,he and L broke up. whooooo
I was surprised as they just got back from their fab trip to Cabo---

S went on to tell me his dad told him, not many details but that it had something to do w/ a talk they had 6 months ago--when ex told S he knew he was a AxxHxxx- and that he just couldnt settle down w/ anyone for long ( ya think??)Ry asked his dad if L knew he wasnt serious about her, ex said, dunno, but she best not, cause if i couldnt love your mom , i dont think i can really love.
Not sure to this day if that was a compliment or not lol

Ry told him again the other night he needs to stop hurting everyone, grow up -- if he just cant commit be upfront and stop stringing people along ,that he has hurt mom and now L. ( not to be picky but cant quite compare a 18 yr marriage and a 3 yr R) anywayyyyyy- Ry said he was afraid he'd be like his dad, and I assured him he already was not! and partly his dads upbringing may have a lot to do w/ his aloofness and lack of feelings for anyone but himself and S was brought up different

He told his dad he really had issues and was going to be lonely before long.

So there ya go,the bloom is off the rose, there will be another one to come along and in fact I am sure there prob is and she found out.

know what?? I am sooooo glad I am out of that madness and I am soooo happy I have gotten a little verification!yahaawww!!

ok typing on this laptop on my bed is not easy!

[Trip]

that is interesting news.

And I would take that comment as a compliment.

[Lissie]

Happy Belated Birthday Chickie Marie!

Your son is a million bucks i tell ya!

[KarenMarieS]

LOL thanks Lissie You are so cute
my friend D calls me Meja Marie sometimes lol
and thank you

Hey Trip
Yes interesting. Heard more too, Seems ex used the same MO
he didnt want the trip to Cabo to be ruined, so he rented his new apt a while ago to move in this weekend and didnt tell her!! Went on their lil trip, since its a gathering of her friends that go, THEN just 3 days ago, told her, he didnt want to " do this anymore" Either she kicked his sorry azz out or he left, but spent the last few days at his BF house, just like when I kicked his sorry azz out 6 yrs ago lol The man dosnt have an original bone in his body.

So he is in his own lil place all by himself just like he wants. Ry shook his head the whole time and talked to me for quite some time- he dosnt understand his dad, told him not to try. He is what he is.

Still love this justified feeling I have, whether he gets back w/ her or has a million other lovers, now maybe others will see its HIS issues, thats why we D. My family and friends knew it, but I have often wondered about his family which were my in laws for 20 yrs and his friends who I was friendly with too, just kinda nice to know maybe now they understand. Since after he left, not one member of his group or family got in touch.


Had a fab weekend, B was here 3 days, went down to the beach for lunch it was so nice! Went in the pool today, barbqued, out to dinner, popped in the casino, B's fav thing to do! and hes good at it! I stink lol--just fun knock around stuff.

Went fast!

Hope everyone had a great weekend, and the week goes by fast!

[Survival_Goddess]

Oh gosh, Karen!

I am not surprised either. Poor Ry, he is such a good kid and of course he doesn't like seeing his dad hurting. That may be part of why he is worried about himself, just maybe a way to express it. But of course you reassured him and of course he is made out of much stronger stuff and he has the (unfortunate) experience of seeing how his dad has screwed up his life.

Same thing happened w/my ex. The bad part is that he started trying to come on to me a bit. He is lonely and I think he knows he screwed up. Oh well too bad so sad. I wouldn't take him back for a million bucks. And I bet you feel the same!

It's hot up here again! I hope things are cool in your neck of the state...

SG

[KarenMarieS]

Hey SG
Thats a thought about Ry, never thought about that. Will keep my eyes open for that.

NOOOO way would I want ex back! Even if B was not in my life, there is no way I would go thru that again and now i know its official the man has no feelings for others, I am more at peace, knowing everything is as it should be.

oh and its HOT HOT here! cooling down this week but I am really tired of the heat!!!
Thanks for checking in SG, have a great week!

[BarbieDoll]

K: Reading about your poor ex (boo hoo, sniff, sniff) has made my day! I don't wish harm to my ex (really) but I'd love for him and maggot to split. Now that would be justice in my opinion. Ash on the other hand has mentioned this and although she hates the maggot, she wants her dad not to be depressed so she feels a breakup would be worse than him being on his own with her.

Anyway, so I understand about how Ry must feel. Also know how you feel - no way, no sir. Never going there again, right?

Barb

[KarenMarieS]

Hey Barb
No wayyyy
Oh I am not sorry for ex at all!, actually nothing to feel sorry about, once again ex has what he wants and has left a path of hurt. Not sure about OW cause not sure if she was OW I do remember tho, she was a tad cocky one night when she answered his phone, I know she was in her ever so discreet way letting me know HE was w/ HER now, oh dear, guess whos crying now.

Ok that was mean but it was the first mean thing I thought about her during this lol