Don't hide. Don't go away. LAN, you are an old timer here, you have been in inspiration to many, including me. I need your guidance now, our situations are very similar. Please stick around, no matter what happens, so we may all learn.
I wish I could express how much your thread here has bouyed me up, has supported me through a very tenuous time in my marriage. I'm at odds with what to expect, I'm disillusioned with the current progress... You show me I'm not alone. Maybe we can help each other, maybe we can help others.
