If texting isn't working with your H, you should probably try another tactic.
Have you talked to a DB coach?
Are there other methods of communication that have worked in the past? Email or even a phone call or a direct invite to do something?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!