MrsH, I took an online course last year and I won't do it again either. I thought it was so much work and then the participation in dicussions so many times a week. I found it very stressful to keep it all organized on top of my job and the class I was taking at the college.
Your L is on top of things! I think that is great. Having support taking directly out of check is the best thing for you...that eliminates one interaction you need to have with him. Let him think it was HIS idea...who cares??
Hopefully you can get your house on the market soon! JA should be helping so don't bust your behind trying to get it done alone!
On a fun note: Went to see Jimmy Buffet last night in downpour, wind driven rain for the entire show!! We were soaked! Great show though!!
