MMO
Reguardless legally of what happens (I hope you do well in this arena for you and kids) Your kids will know who cares.

I've been over dozens of young Marines and Sailors and had one told me about a absent father who tried to reconnect when the Sailor was in his 20s. This kid is hard worker and rising star due to his mom. He had nothing to do with the father who was absent most of his life. I stated possibly the Dad was making amends but he was not open to cracking the door. You reap what you sow.
Either a good harvest or weeds.


"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work"
Steve Martin