H ( whom I dont live with ) has been away all weekend on a fishing trip with friends. As it is Fathers day here I invited him around for dinner with our children upon his return. He arrived , said very little, spent an hour with us and then said he was so tired he was off home ( his mums) Thanked me for dinner. It was as if he was a reluctant guest !!!! You would not even imagine we had been married for so long. He was so formal.
Sick of it. He was tired but he made no effort whatsever to be even a little aware. Children did not seem to mind. In fact encouraged him to leave as were concerned he could fall asleep on the drive to his mums. My kids are teenagers.
How do I not get angry about that? It is much easier if i dont ever see him. Why does he not see what he is loosing ? How hurt can he be about the A ? Should I just give up ?
