My DBing relationship equation

asking wife if she needs money = 3 steps back
talking to W when BIL is around = 3 steps back
talking to W when EA is around = side step, maybe back
just have to figure our what gives me a positive number instead of a negative \:\)

t7-years
m3-years
Me:22
W:27
Wifes kids (love them like my own)
D-10
D-7
Our Kids
S-3

W has depression
Separated-14/07/08

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