Personally Kelly, if you are in piecing I think you should be comunicating. You should be able to tel him about the bank withdrawal thing....wirhout getting angry. You shoul be acle to tell him it makes you feel insecure.

I kicked back at my H loads after his A. Look at my sig line to get an idea of time scales. I still kick back at him occasionally....but now I do it more in a jokey way. Your trust was betrayed and the balance in your R completely destroyed. It takes quite a long time to get it back. Piecing is VERY HARD

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength