Nope give up... I was verbally abused for 13 years, which made me become violent at times.
You know when I was dating her, I used to laugh at her when she yelled at me. I would say you are so cute when you get mad. Then it didn't become cute anymore.
You see I never reacted to her before. But then she pushed me into reaction. That is why I say none of this matters.
Ok, my head just exploded... the Violent Femmes sold out finally and let them use their song in the new movie Igor.