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My problem is the reaction. Something small may get me thinking...then my thinking goes over board and then I flip out. He's told me so often that I think I know everything but in reality I know nothing of what's going on or how he feels.


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Hi, I just came to join the party. I think we all do a 'flip out' once in awhile. I'm sure you can get it under control. With my detaching this week, I decided to write how I felt & reacted when my H & I were friends, then dating then married. (I posted it on my thread). Gave me a bit of an insight how I changed throughout.


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MsMEL!!! How are you?


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Hi Mel...I read that on your thread. Flipping out is ok if you do it irregularly but it sometimes is a way of life for me \:\(

You didn't join FB yet?


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I did - but I can't seem to find peeps. Really, I'm not that challenged \:\) I'm a bel dame on fb.


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A knight?


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some people use their real names and others use the ones the set here.


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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check your ALt uni mailbox


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No, Bel Dame on fb.


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LOL! Ok add me. I just requested.


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