T2L, thanks for the support today. Your right when we give advice to others we are helping ourselves. I have been walking the beach most nights. We live on an island and it is paradise here. Not the way you picture Texas, all palm trees and water. I walk for at least an hour a night. It does help. But I need to get out and not be around. I am back home tonight and he is out and I have no idea if he is even coming home and if so what condition he will be in. That link you sent me was right on. Could it have been written about our H's? LoL. Your right about not accept any invitation with him. He asks me all the time at work to go to lunch with him and then it turns to finances, moving etc. I am just not going any more. I also am going to check out a gym. I have been losing weight and need to lose much more so a gym would be a good place to start besides walking. Then it will give me a place to disappear and I can take D also to spend some time with her. Let's commit to totally GAL. Its a promise! It will be my # one priority. I will also say a prayer for you and your family. I am an Italian Catholic and we always believe in the power of prayer. take care. ______________________________________ Me - 52 H - 49 Married - 21 years D15 D28 I'm not happy 7/27 Looking at furnished apts
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
