I think I am about at the same place in my sitch as you. My ex has been making pretty steady baby steps. However, I have also been experiencing those thoughts of not taking ex back. It is so overwhelming all the damage he has done. These thoughts scare me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
