Just read your post to me...thanks so much for the "man's view" feedback. I sure hope you are right and it isn't just sex to H...it is certainly much more to me.
Anyway, on to answering your questions...well...first let me ask you some questions. What is your w's self esteem like? How many men did she date before you? Were you good at giving her compliments and building her self esteem? What were the real issues in your R?
I am on my way out the door and will give you the full story when I get back, but I wanted to get some background from you to see how your W and I compared. I am anxious to hear your answers to the above questions.