I also changed the locks when ex left. I found him coming and going at all different crazy times. One morning I awoke to find him in the kitchen looking through the utensil drawer. He seemed to have no clue what he was doing. I also changed the garage code. He was so pissed. All that anger is gone now. He is very mellow and nice to me most of the time.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11