I am so sorry about everything. I don't understand how he could make those claims. For sure, seek legal advice on that one. I feel angry for you! why don't these guys/gals get that they still should be responsible for THEIR kids. *Shaking head*
I hope you feel happier again soon. I say feel free to vent here and even play like fig, I and many others do. it's all part of the process to us and helps us see the fun in things again. I know a big part of GAL is laughing again. Also, I think your words, advice and thoughts add value to the forums. Please don't be discouraged about posting what you want to say. I do know what you mean because my past serious and fun posts were cut but I am not letting that stop me.