Is it just sex....or more?????

[JWS]

Hi, I just read what you posted on Dans page about your similarities with his W. you sound like my W too. I think she is doing the exact same things as far as having her life free to let men she really does not care about fill up a void in her life. and that it was something that you had to get out of your system.

I have been taking the casual friends approach with her and it has yielded pretty good results although she is kind of poor at being friends and really only comes around when she wants something. I was just wandering how your H treated the situation and what worked or did not work for you. you talked about him learning of your D life and making you straighten up. Why did you go from wanting a free life to realizing you did not want to loose him for ever.

I have been reading through your post and think that you have a lot of good progress lately so keep it up, and just to throw in my two cents, its never really just sex with men. I have know my share of friends who sleep with a different woman every weekend and the biggest thing i notice is they are not happy to be missing out on the intimate part, witch is the only real thing that makes sex great. I would say hi probable jets out of there because he is not yet sure how to deal with the feelings that being intimate brings up. yes he is avoiding them right now but i am willing to bet he is feeling them and that is a good thing.