Just read your post to me...thanks so much for the "man's view" feedback. I sure hope you are right and it isn't just sex to H...it is certainly much more to me.
Anyway, on to answering your questions...well...first let me ask you some questions. What is your w's self esteem like? How many men did she date before you? Were you good at giving her compliments and building her self esteem? What were the real issues in your R?
I am on my way out the door and will give you the full story when I get back, but I wanted to get some background from you to see how your W and I compared. I am anxious to hear your answers to the above questions.
Hi guys, I had a pretty good weekend, lots of hanging out with friends and some getting things done around the house.
Changed - unfortunately my W self esteem is very low, it really all ways has been even when things were good. no matter how great I tell her she is she does not believe it. she also is over shadowed by the fact that early on I found my dream job adn she has been constantly searching for hers. we are high school sweetheart so no other men, witch is another card stacked against us I am sure she feels like she has not had that experience so wants too. Real issues in our M, that would be really nice to know, she wont now or before talk to me about any of them, she just needs to find her self.
I know that was quick and dirty, but I am on the way to work. I am not sure how that all sounds but I am VERY detached at the moment and have been for weeks so its hard to really think about it, she is on the other side of a huge wall I have built for now.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
