Good point Phoenyx about just saying he wants to stay with me, doesn't put her on the ropes or cause injustice that her son doesn't want to be with her... Well will see what skullduggery she has planned tonight. Frankly I don't not care what or who she does, because in many ways I'm better off with out her. The constant verbal abuse. The constant being treated like crap.
You know it was funny. I woman came to the party to pick up her kids. As soon as she walked in she did a double take of herself making sure everything on her person looked ok. Then she started playing with her hair. I would like to think I was making her a bit nervous. It seemed like she wanted to interact with me, but then I realised who her kid was. He was the most undisciplined misbehaved kid at the party. I also noticed she wasn't wearing a ring.
Tells me two things. Her child is misbehaved because he comes from a broken family. She isn't with anybody because there was no ring, and since the children had bad behavior it is most likely she was single.
So was she flirting, looking, or whatever. I didn't bother to try and talk to her. I'm not looking for another one anyways. I guess it is just nice to know that maybe someone else noticed you.
I'm trying to hang in there. I just don't see any progress until we get closer to the end of her one year lease. Now if she totally enjoys this one year off of marriage due to bad behavior then I guess I'll be done. I guess I have to try and make interactions with her as positive as possible.
I think it is good I removed those evil woman words from my vocabulary. Because believe me I want to say them to her almost every single conversation.
I was hoping things would improve that she would want to be around me. It does seem like she is a little better starting off with the conversations, but then it turns into some fight picking mess.
