Hoosier, you are a manipulator of words and facts. I have not belittled anyone of a different denomination or used the Church as a weapon. You are certainly passive aggressive everythinng that spews from your finger tips contains the manipulation.
No, you are not sorry you feel that way. I'm certainly not. I can see why your heading for a divorce. You don't know when to give up. Then you twist turn, manipulate everything out of context. I have asked you to go away. No go away.
Puppy, really you are implying things you have no evidence of. That is what you do. The things you say create monsters in my head. How would this site as anonymous as it is endanger me to losing custody of my children. Don't you think it is the other way around.
Even with her today she is driving me nuts. Son is with me. Doesn't want to be with her. We had birthday parties to go to. I asked her if there was a wrapping paper or did she take it all. She started spazzing out on me.
I said stop giving me a hard time about everything good bye.
She calls later she was already an hour late for D's party. She ask and berades me wondering if I'm watching my son. I said he is on the mini golf course on hole seven. Well you better watch him better someone could take him. She said D was being bad. I said let me talk to her. I asked D what was up. She said, Mommy was taking too long I kept telling her to get ready now we are late, and I just want to go to the party. Wife gets back on. She wants to know what time mass is at a certain Church and she wants to know if son wants to go with her. She says she will call back later.
She calls again. I tell her how son's friend treats him like crap. They are in first grade. The girl said to my son and everyone at the party. I am opening up my husbands gift first. She grabs him at the party and makes him sit with her. She made him take a certain number for pin the tale on the donkey. She made him be on all her teams. I was telling thw wife this and my wife said, I know she is so domineering towards him I hate it. She treats him like crap.
I said that is exactly how you treat me. She said real funny Phil. I said it is so true. She said she is coming to get son to be with her at the other party. He said he doesn't want to go. Well tell him not to cry when he isn't with me and never see's me. Then she says, they you will say Phil I never want to be with the kids. I said I never said that. I just said I didn't think it was right when you dumped your kids at your mothers on your day off, when they should have just stayed with me. I have priority. I said are you going to do that tonight. Are you going to dump them down there, not call me, and make me wonder where my children are. I said I would never do that to you. She said well maybe I will. I said good luck. Talk to you later. She starts again. I'm coming to get him. I said do you want me to drop him off I'm driving. She said no, I'll pick him up because she says she needs to put clothes in the dryer and get a jacket its chilly today.
I hang up. Son says I want to stay with you Daddy. So I call her back. He said he doesn't want to be with you. She said you tell him not to cry he doesn't get to spend time with me on my day off.
I'm not telling him that.
It's all fruitless. She must be phasing on a manic stage or something. She was mean. Hour later she was nice. hour later she was mean.
During the party I went down in the pit, walked away and cried a little. Song on the radio triggered it.
