Treese not sure if this will help but try to think of your h and walk in his shoes. He has been carrying around a secret inside of him for so long. Eating away at his insides and feeling horrible about himself that he did this to you, his kids, even ow.

I am sure he has struggled just looking at himself in the mirror and knowing the pain of his mistakes.

On the surface he may not act like above but you can almost guarantee that is what he was feeling. Especially if he has said a huge burden has been lifte.

Would you want to walk in your h's shoes?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"