Treese I am not sure in what context your h made that statement, but if it was the revealing of the child of course that would be a huge burden off of him.

He no longer is carrying that secret around inside. He may not be proud of that secret, but it's now out in the open and can now be dealt with.

My h says too, he doesn't care what his family or anyone thinks of him. Of course they don't care right now on the surface, but deep down they do. They just are struggling with the day to day they can't even think beyond themselves.

I too would ask a lawyer about any legal questions you may have. You want information to make an informed decision.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"