I am glad that you found the 101 helpful. Life is difficult enough without someone you are truly trying to help turning on you time and time again. HeLL, If I wanted that I could go talk to my X.
Take care. Keep sitting on your fingers if need be.
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}