Cinders… It is OK to feel angry and bitter towards your husband. Those feelings need to be worked though and understood. They will pass. Accept them and see how you can learn and grow from them.

Just because your H is keeping himself too busy to think or feel doesn’t mean that he wont one day. You are working through your ‘stuff’ now.. his time will come.

My H is similar in as much as he is living the young, free and single party life. I find myself wondering which was the real man.. The man he was with me or the man he is with OW. I personally do not wish to associate with the man my H is right now, I just don’t like him – simple as that.

Nutty x

Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.