I agree it is hard to imagine they want to always be close, be friends, but then they draw the line at being spouses...
When H and I were trying to talk finances, he was offended that I was even needing to have the conversation. "Of COURSE I will always take care of you, you know that" was the gist of his side of the convo. Funny, when they drop a bomb, say they want to end the marriage and break up the family, but we should trust in the fact that they will always care and always be there??? WTF...
Sorry John, I know I am not being a mood lifter. I just know how it feels to a certain extent to be where you are. I am a little ways behind you on the DB train. We did the living apart, now we are living together, don't know if it will revert back to being apart...
Hope you have some good time with D. I know it will be hard to try and explain to her when the situation is confusing to you, too.
