Good morning, another stressful evening. I took my time leaving work yesterday and did not call H because I am trying to give him space. Then I pick up my daughter and he calls asking why we are not home. go figure. We ended going out to eat with our D15 and her friend. After dinner the girls go outside then he starts asking questions about splitting the bills and why is it so expensive. Nice way to settle a meal. He then says you send me the bills but not the savings information. He thinks I am going to hand him thousands of thousands of money so he can live the high life. too much. I need to get some legal advice like it or not. Then we go home and I leave to take a walk on the beach. At the local hotel they had a band outside and I stayed and sat on the seawall and listened to some music. It was sad to be alone. I get home and he is on the phone with our other D28 who lives on the East Coast. She knows we are having problems -- She also has anxiety problems which she is trying to deal with. I think she was giving him a hard time. We talk outside and he thinks he is being wonderful because he is looking for an apartment close to where we live and that he is planning on taking a class today on how to deal with the kids on divorce. I tell him that I get he is not happy but why won't he work on the marriage instead of working on everything to break up the marriage (against DB techniques). I caught myself and went inside. He gets up this morning and goes to the class. I feel sick. How can you go to a class to teach on how to break our kids hearts. I worry about our D15 so much. I think that my H would be more receptive if the OW was not in the picture. I think she is the one that is clouding his vision. I pray he sees that before it is too late. Hope everyone is having a more positive day than me. chat later. take care and God bless. k
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
