AT, I just can't seem to NOT love my wife. So there's the rub. That being the case, she is in my daily thoughts. Not a constant thought, but a daily thought. Somewhere, somehow something triggers it.
I am still married to her. That won't change until she divorces me. This past August put us at 14 years.
H4H
Man can I relate to what you said. It will be 18 years for us on Sept 29 and she has concert tix with one of the EGF (no big deal, just another turn of the knife in the heart).
I think the key is to realize you do love your wife - that likely will not change because your heart won't let it. BUT you have to love YOURSELF as well. I struggle with that - I am a giver, not a taker - but I keep reminding myself that if I do not love myself, I can't really love anyone else.
Take care. Enjoy the weekend.
LIS
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